"It's not always about what you get, but what you give" - forgot who said this


But I find this quote so true. One has to sometimes put his ego aside and begin to understand other people better. For example, in a relationship. It's a give and take affair. If both parties understand and respect each other, Insyallah the relationship will last long, accompanied by many would called it,jodoh, or 'fate' in other words. If you're meant to be, you're meant to be.

I've been in failed relationships before, be it partly my fault or totally my fault,i've learnt my lessons.I'd vow never to commit any mistakes in my future relationship,Insyallah.

The current events that happened in my life made me closer to God, appreciate His greatness,and realising the importance of patience. It was something I lack in the past, but I hope I have improved on it now. Been sharing thoughts with a few of my close friends. Many had the same problems as me,and each of us have our learning points.

What's meant to be,is meant to be,right?

Be gentleman and pack up n leave once u know she doesnt appreciate you any more. That's what I keep in mind. Do not ever resort to revenge or whatsoever,it's not healthy. (Altho i've experienced the pain of being backstabbed in broad daylight)

To be frank, what I look for in a relationship, is a long term affair. If you're in for some short-term hanky panky, jollywell buzz off. I'd give my best in giving the care and concern the other party needs. (I can't continue this part as it will get personal, haha. Ask me personally and i will continue)


Diamond is more valuable the deeper in the earth it is found. To those who are waiting for their love to be mutual, patience is a virtue. The wait is as worth as digging deeper into the earth and Insyallah, find your long-awaited diamond.


So,in short, all u lovebirds out there,cherish your loved ones before it's too late. Forego your ego, be patient and understand each other.

From the moment I saw u,i've fallen for u. You may not see it coming, but I hope to let u know that i admire u,and it's hard to find another with the same character as you. I don't really get to talk to u often, but I hope u know that you are dearly missed.. From the sincere bottom of my heart, i'll inscribe your name,paint your picture,and remember your smile..I'm glad i've met you
My 2 cents worth,that's all for now.

-Fiq-

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