Hey I have great news for everyone.
Next time don't ask me to plan again. This is my last. We've sent a notification email to all within 1 weeks notice. Yet, there are people who cant organise their time. The rule is simple; cant make it, say no. Don't keep on saying "Hey,er,sorry im not sure, let u know again" until the day before the whole thing, then waited for me to ask, then the final answer will be "Sorry, not going. Got something on tml". We also have people who just don't bother to reply sms. I have to go online and look for them, all they replied were " Ya I received. I'm not sure leh. I dunno." There are people who will go only if other people will go. This is the most sickening part. In a group of 10, if one cant go, i can bet the other 2 to 8 ppl will not go.
I know planning is difficult but sometimes u gotta understand, it's not always the planner's fault if the whole thing screws up. We have problematic people who already knew about the event 1 week beforehand, then when it gets nearer, their friends ask them out, they will abort the idea of going to the initial plan, and the best part is, all these things happen usually the day before the real event when i'm asking around for confirmation. Sucks right? Don't do that to other people if u don't want it to happen to you.
Guide for those future planners, i aint gonna plan again:
I'm not sure means NO
I dunno means NO
I'm still thinking whether I should go means NO
Ya im going means YES
Yup,when is the thing means YES
I'll get back to u on monday(the event is on tue) means NO (don't hope so much)
fucking hell.
Sorry for the vulgarities but i can't help it.